How do us old folks share our witness and wisdom with young folks who don’t seem to want to hear us?
Sharing your wisdom and experiences with younger generations can be a rewarding endeavor, even if they may initially seem disinterested. To effectively convey your witness and wisdom, start by building genuine relationships based on trust and respect. Listen actively to their thoughts and concerns before offering advice, choosing appropriate moments to share your insights. Be open-minded and acknowledge the differences in your experiences, demonstrating an understanding of the challenges they face. Patience is key; understand that young folks may not be ready to hear certain things immediately. Lead by example, showcasing the values and principles you want to impart through your actions. It can be helpful for young folks to encourage their independence by allowing them to make their own decisions and celebrate their achievements to create a positive environment for sharing wisdom. Respect is crucial for the success of intergenerational relationships, but it must go both ways. The goal is not to impose your views but to offer guidance and support, fostering an environment where they may become more receptive to the valuable insights you have to offer.
Deborah Bertschi says
Thank you for this post as I have been thinking about this a lot lately as my oldest granddaughter is growing into a teenager and the time we share together has me stuck as to what to do with her as she grows into a young woman.
I am wondering if you could help me think in terms of the stories and beliefs (Bible references) that hit on the key tenets of our journey as Christians for a child that has heard some of the stories but not in a consistant way. Or, any books that we could share that are made for young people seeking to know more about Jesus and his discipleship.
I don’t know if this is the forum for this, but it is a question that I am asking my friends about as I travel through my own unnavigated journey a bit off the beaten trail I have been traveling.
Thanks for any help you may be able to give or direct me to!